never walk alone.

Going back to NYP seems alienated to me.
Its so empty here.
I've never seen NYP so lifeless.
Although its the 1 week break here, usually there will still be a handful of students.
Wells, maybe its just my imagination.
Ahakz.

Hmmmm.
What shall I blog about.....?

Oh yah.

You know, when a couple in a serious relationship(and I mean serious, not those for the sake of it) is going through a rough patch, it'll stuck in their head for some time.
It may take a few days.
A few weeks.
Or even months, in some outrageous cases.
But what do we do to get through this rough patch?
To overcome it.

1. Do we just stay quiet towards each other and let nature take its course?
2. Do we try to thrash it out and find ways to make each other feel better?
3. Do we end that particular relationship just based on that rough patch alone?

In my opinion, the 2nd option is the best one for me if they know how to work it out.
I've had my fair share of conflicts with her too.
I mean, which couple don't?
But if we just stay quiet and let nature take its course, its gonna be miserable for both.
Because neither wants to make a move.
Huge egos begin to creep in.
Its the "Let him/her contact me 1st" syndrome.
And thats bad.
Cos it may take forever if thats the case.
Then it'll lead to thoughts of "does he/her?" and bla bla bla.
And the next thing you know, its a so called silent break-up.

Need I elaborate more about the 3rd option?
Its as straightforward as it is.
If a couple can't even sort it out just based on that rough patch alone, then their relationship isn't strong enough.
Like what's the point being together in the first place?

Therefore, we should thrash things out.
But not thrash it out in an ill-tempered manner.
Not when we are still furious with each other.
Maybe after a day or two, talk it out calmly.
Meet up at your favourite place and speak to each other like mature adults.
And never, ever put sarcasm into the equation when it comes to this.
Its never a good thing.
And then try to do things that you usually do to make the day better for each other.

I think it'll work.
And its a good remedy for a relationship.

Thats all then.

Hidanilson Outz. . .