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Wednesday, 23 November 2005 ||12:29 pm||
which source??
The migraine has returned to attack me.
This sitting in front of the com for the whole day thingy doesn't help the situation at all. Anyways, tell me which is the best source of comunicating? By SMS-ing, telephon-ing or MSN-ing? There are pros and cons. Lets start off with SMS. Pros: You don't have to face the person you are "chatting" with. So you might wanna reveal anything you have deep down inside you to that person. Anything that doesn't sound right or smells a fish to you, you may wanna ask that person through this medium because you don't wanna witness that person's reaction. Easier to trash things out because we tend to keep our "tone" as polite as possible. Cons: When you are left with no topics, the SMS just stays stagnant. No one replies to each other. People starts to get irritated with each other. People don't reply because they are busy with stuffs but its the "donno-whether-its-true-or-not" plight. Next up is telephones. Pros: You can leisurely chat and idle your time away. You can't see their reaction but you can at least hear them. When engrossed in one particular topic, we tend to talk non-stop and make full use of the term chatting. Cons: Somehow, conversations on the phone may lead to quarrels. Been there, done that. When there are no topics, you can almost hear crickets. Its a non-existent atmosphere. Last but not least, MSN. Pros: The roots of getting to know each other better. You can mainly ask anything using this source. You can have mulitple chats, you have different people to chat with and its free. Except for the internet bill that you have to pay, but hey its as good as free actually because we need the internet nowadays don't we? Once you are done chatting with a certain someone, you may proceed to approach another one. Cons: Once again, the reaction. Same as SMS. And of course, you don't know who you are chatting with literally. The person you are chatting with may turn out to be their family members or friends. Unless, you have a way of confirming that that person is actually that person. Ahakz. And finally, the silence part. No topics = empty windowscreen. So...yeah.. I've come out with those conclusions. Right or wrong, I'm not sure. Thats why if you have other views(whether its going against my conclusion or new ones) and wanna share it, kindly either tag or leave your comments below. It's better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than lose someone that you love with your useless pride That has nothing to do with the entry above but its wise words though. Came across it in the internet. Still feeling the pain in my head. Go away!! Somebody shoot me. Please. |